Eskimo 21 Central NY. Aspiring alternative model. Taken by the best. This is my mind in blog form. Questions? feel free to ask.

 

knowledge-respect-dignity asked
Why you so offended by my opinions and preferences. Leave it be chica!:)

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Anonymous asked
Shut the fuck up about 50 shades of grey. No one fucking cares

amemait:

myheartbelongstoabarricadeboy:

winchesterinengland:

oh hun

let me just give you a quick run down of all the things wrong with this ask:

1-you assume i care what some asshole anon has to say when i have 300 pounds and i’m going kikass birthday shopping today

2-you assume id care about some asshole anon any other day of the year

3-i care about the 50 shades of grey thing. and whether you do or not is irrelevant to me because you are, after all, just an asshole anon

4- this is my blog and i’ll post whatever the fuck i want, if you cant take three fucking posts about something without turning into a soggy cum stained dishrag then i suggest you make use of that unfollow button because youre gross

5- lemme break this down for you

if you dont care about this 50 shades situation, you need to grow the fuck up and look at the facts

the fact is the book was so misinformed that all the practises about bdsm culture were ignored and shit all over.

he ignores the safeword

he legitimately rapes her

he never explains everything about bdsm culture to her, shes so misinformed its ridiculous

and all of this is going even more public than it already has and its being romanticised and released on valentines day 

like “happy valentines honey! i bought some ropes i dont actually know how to tie and a whip i dont actually know how to use and i’m going to just gloss over the fact you’re uncomfortable because that clearly doesnt matter!”

incorrect use of a whip can cause organ failure

incorrect knots used on wristst or feet can literally cause them to need to be amputated

its perpetuating rape culture in ways ive never seen it be advanced to this leve; and if you dont care then youre truly disgusting 

you dont care about the kids not fully understanding their sexuality being abused by older people who they think are totally allowed to do this shit?

you dont care about the people that will be raped because of this because hey apparently rape is sexy?

you dont care about the fact that the bdsm culture is, once again, being portrayed as people who are fucked up and must have been abused to be that way rather than normal people who enjoy a kink in their own homes?

you dont care about the fact that youre not supposed to bleed on your first time. ever. and now tons more girls are going to think that its completely normal? that tons more guys will? that tons of people are going to think its expected for the female to bleed when SHE WONT IF SHES BEEN SUFFICIENTLY TURNED ON AND STRETCHED ITS REALLY NOT THAT HARD

you dont care about the stereotype of subs not actually enjoying bdsm culture is being widespread? that all subs dislike it and simply have an ulterior motive?

you dont care about the underlying message of the book being “a woman should give everything, including herself, to a man”?

you dont care about all the people in abusive relationships that will think “oh well this must be normal then” and stay there?

christian grey is a run-of-the-mill abusive boyfriend. he isnt a dom. 

a dom loves his/her sub completely and the motto of bdsm is "safe, willing and sane" (or something like that anyone feel free to correct me)

it means that both partners have to be completely willing, with boundaries, safewords and everything worked out before they even think about touching eachother intimately. 

if something is a boundary, you dont fucking do it

that simple

if the safeword is used it stops. everything stops

that simple

a dom should treat his sub like a goddamn princess (unless they have prearranged and understand that he wont eg-pet play, slave play where anything outside of the bedroom is also in the same dynamic HOWEVER IT IS STILL CONSENSUAL SO IT IS STILL OKAY)

a dom is not christian grey

but millions of people are going to think he is and are going to think that thats the way bdsm should be and they’ll get involved in something very dangerous if they dont have the real facts.

that people will think its romantic because this shit is scheduled for valentines day  to treat your partner like shit, abuse her, and that what? getting them off absorbs you of all your shit? no. this is so fucking gross and im not taking a backseat when this shit happens

so in conclusion

literally fuck you, you insensitive fuck stain, this issue is so fucking important.

Important

Reblogging for obvious reasons but also for the ‘goddamn princess’. Because yes.

iamokaybymyself:

a gay man portraying a straight man forcing a bisexual actress playing a lesbian to focus on a hot dude’s dick

Queerception

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musicpoetryandwritingislife:

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thotsinternational:

praxis89:

trillxdeath:

scaredatbest:

Holy FUCK

THIS

lmfao 

What the hell….

Lmfao, this was not what I was expecting. AT ALL.

Thats the best shit ive seen on here in a long time

Well that was an adventure

Always reblog lol

oh my god why

Genius!

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just-for-grins:

If you’re having a bad day here are a few baby animal pictures which surely should cheer you up!  :D

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illusionarysilvercrystal:

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delicately-interconnected:

Wow this is the most disturbing bit of rape culture I’ve seen all day

This is so fucking repulsive this is seriously a fucking tip sheet for abusers holy fuck no

MAKE SURE THEY CRY AND THEN GIVE THEM ALCOHOL AFTERWARD SO THEY THINK YOU STILL LOVE THEM this is fucking disgusting what the FUCK

I think I’m gonna be sick

"Make sure it ends in tears." That’s not love.

kill me

"aftercare" is literally grooming your abused, emotionally traumatised partner into a state of comfort so that you can abuse them again 

i hate this world

"Rape culture" "abuse" "trauma" ???????? ?? ? ?? ? ???? ? ?

Are yoU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!!? This is a guideline for couples who ENJOY spanking in their relationship, for a wide variety of reasons, like the fact that it’s a KINK!!!!!! IT’S CONSIDERED A PART OF BDSM CULTURE!!!! Notice the very first image says "CONSENTING ADULTS ONLY!!!" THIS IS NOT ABUSE, THIS IS FETISH!!!

THE “AFTERCARE” THAT YOU ARE BITCHING ABOUT IS A **N.E.C.E.S.S.A.R.Y.**  PART OF ANY SCENES OR PLAYS THAT A COUPLE PARTICIPATES IN!!! IT’S LITERALLY WHERE YOU TAKE CARE OF AND LOVE ON YOUR PARTNER THAT WAS PUT THROUGH ANY STRESSING ACTS DURING THE SCENE!!!! IT’S A VERY IMPORTANT THING THAT EVERY HEALTHY BDSM RELATED SCENARIO SHOULD END IN!!!!!!!!

OH MY GOD, CAN SOMEONE THAT HAS A MORE EXTENSIVE KNOWLEDGE OF ALL THIS EXPLAIN IT IN MORE DETAIL FOR ME PLEASE?? I AM TOO ANGRY TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO DO IT!!!!!!

Consenting adults.

Not adults that have no desire or want to engage in these acts. People have sadist and masochistic streaks. They’re aroused by this sort of give and take for one reason or another.

They seek it out.

They don’t have it done to them. They have it done with them.

They consent. That’s the OPPOSITE of rape culture, if you didn’t know that just by the use of words.

In addition, the bit with the ‘drinks’ is CLEARLY tea. Not alcohol, dumb ass. You’ve obviously never seen a tea kettle before. People obviously keep whiskey in tea kettles.

The process of spanking in a scene completed with aftercare. The post is directed to those who are already familiar with the kink and culture safety guidelines.

Ones that start with “discussion”. They talk about each of their needs. They talk about what they are or are not comfortable with. They discuss safe words that will immediately stop a scene or what sort of indications will be given that one or the other participant (both spanker and spankee in this example) is no longer comfortable with the scene. There’s a lot of trust building before either participant even BEGINS a scene like this.

You know what a rapist/abuser doesn’t do? All of the above. They do not talk about it. They do not define limits, they just beat the shit out of their victim. They do not care what the victim thinks or feels or what they aren’t comfortable with. They don’t give one twatting fuck so long as they get to be in ABSOLUTE TOTAL BRUTAL UNCARING AND INATTENTIVE POWER of situation. Which is not a relationship. It is not consent. It’s just hurting someone else to feel empowered like weak little pissants they are in the rest of the world.

In a consenting scene the participants are very attentive and very in control. Even when the submissive party is relinquishing it. They choose to give up that power. They choose to trust the dominant party. They choose when to stop giving them power and/or trusting them.

A victim chooses nothing. The abuser does not care.

The opposite of what is going on in a scene.

In addition, the aftercare is also the pinnacle of the OPPOSITE of abusive relationships.

Aftercare is about communication. About giving a shit that you just spanked this person to the point of vulnerability and tears. About continuing to express that you love them. Genuinely.

That’s not what an abuser does. An abuser leaves you to feel like trash and comes back after watching you suffer a bit for their satisfaction to bring you bullshit material items and/or bullshit hugs and kisses. Maybe some fucking excuse about what they did to you and how it’s all your fault. How no one would treat you so good.

That’s not aftercare. That’s apologizing until you let them beat the snot out of you again.

Aftercare is about talking and love. And making sure you’re taken care of and that you’re safe and nothing that you did other than your CONSENT brought about that spanking.

Not about ‘conditioning you’ to take more abuse from some fuck who only thinks they love you and want to own your as a pretty thing they get to stick a dick/dildo into and show to fam during social events.

What you think and what is are two different things.

You clearly have no understanding of what each are and what each are defined as.

Do more research and remove your righteous bullshit blinders while you do.

Crazy cannibal-necrophiliac guy knows what’s up. 

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